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Fri, Sep 22

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San Diego

Femdom Fatale

A Night of Noir Intrigue TICKETS MUST BE BOUGHT ON EVENTBRITE.

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Time & Location

Sep 22, 2023, 8:30 PM PDT – Sep 23, 2023, 1:30 AM PDT

San Diego, San Diego, CA, USA

About the Event

Notice: All edge play will be allowed with prior authorization; an edge play request form will be sent out to all those interested.

Step into our  world; an evening that will make you feel like you've stepped right into a 1940s crime drama, where every corner holds a secret, and each encounter could be a matter of control and surrender.

Female identifying Dominant individuals: come ready to express your dominance as dommes/tops become the ultimate femmes fatales - irresistible, dangerous, and enchanting!

Submissives/devotees: come experience the euphoria and wonder while serving and being dominated by powerful people, and the devotees will be loyal henchmen, trapped in a web of desire and power.

Others: come witness, partake, and revel in the liberty of self-expression within a Female-led atmosphere

Submissives, bottoms, and switches of all genders who value Female identifying Tops are invited to join and engage in the celebration.

ATTIRE: Dress to impress in fetish attire, cocktail wear, 1940s Noir, film noir styles, sharp suits, raincoats, fedoras, elegant gowns, pencil skirts, tailored suits, or any outfit that embodies the theme. Feel free to add dramatic makeup, red lips, and vintage accessories. Almost anything goes once you're inside and ready to celebrate.

NO TICKETS WILL BE SOLD AT THE DOOR. ALL TICKETS MUST BE PURCHASED IN ADVANCED.

THIS IS A 21+ EVENT, NO ONE UNDER 21 ALLOWED AS WE WILL BE SERVING ALCOHOL!

Feel free to BYOB, mixes will be provided. In addition we will have a bartender serving some signature cocktails!

Theme Inspired hors d'oeuvres and signature cocktails will be provided

FAQ.

1. What do I need to do in order to be eligible to attend San Diego Bad Intentions Femdom Events?

In order to attend one of our events, you must be vetted in person or online by Miss Melody Pond &, Princess Nina, Goddess Colette, or be a guest of a vetted member.

2. What should I wear?

Try to stay within the theme, but dress in whatever makes you comfortable. Be creative!

3. What should I expect?

Expect to have fun! Ask questions, join the fun, or just stand back and observe. Just expect to be yourself! Be mindful of consent rules, ask before touching, and please do not interrupt scenes in progress. There will be a 101 B D S M tutorial at the beginning of the event disclosing quick rules of the venue and scene safety.

4. Why is the address not disclosed on the ticket?

The party is being held in a private dungeon in the San Diego area, we do not publish the address. It is only given to those with confirmed reservations to avoid any potential issues.

5. Who can come?

Anyone 21+ who is respectful of the Female Led theme of the party. No tickets will be sold at the door. There will be a door person checking people in. IDs and vaccination card will be checked.

6. What is the photo/video/recording policy?

No photography or filming is permitted by guests during the party! But if you really want pictures, please ask one of the event staff to capture those images for you. WE strive to protect the privacy of all those attending.

7. Do I have to be a female identifying dominant or submissive male to attend?

No. But all our scenes will be led by female identifying Dominants or switches.

8. I don't identify as a female dominant or a male submissive or slave but I want to play!

That is completely understandable and you are more than welcome to attend. We welcome everyone who is respectful of the Female Led environment of this event but again all our scenes will be led by female identifying dominants or switches.

9. Will there be Dungeon Monitors at this event?

Yes. The DMs will act on behalf of the event hosts and have permission from the host to pause a scene, or end a scene if guests are playing in a way that is unsafe. Please pay attention to the 101 BDSM tutorial at the event to know what is not considered safe play. Any guests harassing DMs will be asked to leave.

Rules

Drink responsibly, no open bottles can leave the premises. You will be asked to leave if we sense you are intoxicated.

No overtly k i n k, fetish, or n u d i t y allowed outside.

Respect a person's personal space and privacy, as well as their right to say no to advances, conversation, overtures of friendship, or to express feeling uncomfortable. Should this happen, disengage and do not attempt to convince them they are mistaken about your intentions or actions.

Treat everyone as an equal regardless of body type, ability, race, ethnicity, country of origin, gender identity or expression, sexual orientation, relationship status, or religion/spiritual path. Only engage in verbal role-play if you have permission. For example, don’t call someone “Mistress” or “slave” or any other role-play word unless you’ve asked if it’s okay. Please ask consent before using honorifics!

Be yourself

No one is exempt from obtaining consent. Everyone has the right to be free from harassment.DO NOT ask a second time hoping for a more favourable response.

No one owes you anything.

The hosts and organizers may refuse participation by anyone at our events.

If you would like a picture of YOUR scene, ask a DM to take a picture for you. NO cameras, or recording devices are allowed anywhere on the premises. phones can be used on the patio (no photos, recording or videos). you can be banned from future event for violating this rule

Respect the privacy of others, hosts and organizers!

Alleged consent violations will be dealt with on a case-by-case basis. Anyone who feels they may have been violated may speak to the event host or designated person privately, and with a promise of confidentiality if so desired. We take consent violations very seriously.

With the permission of the complainant, the event host may ask for details about what occurred from involved parties and witnesses who are willing or able to provide information. The complainant may add further information at a later time if they are unable to fully articulate details immediately following the incident.

Someone who is alleged to have violated the consent policy may be asked to leave the event. Special consideration will be given to the wishes of the victim of the consent violation, though the final decision belongs to the event host.

The event host will bring available information about any harassment, violation of consent, or reason for refusing participation to next event with the aim to evaluate if changes are needed and decide if further action is warranted.

The event host will bring available information about any harassment, violation of consent, or reason for refusing participation in future SD Bad Intentions Event with the aim to evaluate if changes are needed and decide if further action is warranted.

Regardless of any outcome, SD bad Intention Femdom events will not tolerate post-complaint shaming or retaliation.

We make our events discreet and private! We usually send location to people who register through our eventbrite!

Stay home if you feel unwell

DO NOT OUT PEOPLE!

Lastly, have FUN!

AGREEMENT AND RELEASE OF LIABILITY

Voluntary Participation

1. I am at least 21 years of age and am freely and voluntarily choosing to attend and participate in this event and to view and/or participate in activities that I know are adult oriented and sexually explicit and that involve acts of domination, submission, bondage, discipline, sadism and masochism, and other explicit and extreme sexual fetishes and activities, including, but not limited to, spanking, paddling, whipping, waxing, knife or edge play, CBT, bondage, suspension, fisting and other oral, vaginal and anal penetration. I understand that these activities involve certain risks, including, but not limited to, the possible negligent or reckless conduct of other participants.

Assumption of Risk

2. I AM AWARE THAT THESE ACTIVITIES ARE CONSIDERED EXTREMELY HAZARDOUS ACTIVITIES. I AM VOLUNTARILY PARTICIPATING IN THESE ACTIVITIES WITH FULL KNOWLEDGE OF THE DANGERS INVOLVED, AND I ACCEPT AND I ASSUME FULL RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY AND ALL RISKS OF PROPERTY DAMAGE, PERSONAL INJURY OR DEATH. I VERIFY THIS STATEMENT BY PLACING

Release

3. As consideration for being permitted to enter the event, and to view and participate in these activities, and to use the facilities and equipment being provided, I agree that neither I nor anyone through me or on my behalf will make any claim against or sue the SD Bad Intentions Femdom event organizers &/or hosts individually, or anyone affiliated including, but not limited to, their friends, associates, guests, agents, employees, employers, teammates, landlords, volunteers, promoters, sponsors and contractors, or suppliers of the premises, and the owners, lessors or suppliers of any equipment used in connection with the event, for any injury or damage suffered by me at any time during my presence at the event or as a result of my participation in any activities at the event, and I hereby release, waive and forever discharge them, their heirs, administrators, executors and assigns, from any and all claims, demands, actions or rights of action, of whatever kind or nature, either in law or in equity, arising from, or by reason of, my attendance at, or participation in, the event or activities.

Indemnity and Hold Harmless

4. I agree to indemnify and hold harmless SD Bad Intentions Femdom event, its organizers &/or hosts, and all those individuals and entities described in paragraph 3 above, from any loss, liability, injury, damage or cost that they may occur or that they may incur due to my presence or my actions at the event, whether caused by my negligence or otherwise.

Knowing and Voluntary Execution

5. I HAVE CAREFULLY READ THIS DOCUMENT AND I FULLY UNDERSTAND ITS CONTENTS. I AM AWARE THAT THIS IS A RELEASE OF LIABILITY AND A CONTRACT BETWEEN ME AND THE HOSTS OF FEMALE DOMINATION PLAY PARTY AND THAT I AM GIVING UP MANY LEGAL RIGHTS AND REMEDIES BY SIGNING IT. Initials ______.

COVID-19 Safety Acknowledgment -- Liability Waiver and Release of Claims

COVID-19 SAFETY INFORMATION:

While participating in events held or sponsored by the SD Bad Intentions Femdom event, we recommend following local ordinances regarding COVID-19. COVID-19 is extremely contagious and is spread mainly from person-to-person contact. We have put in place preventative measures to reduce the spread of COVID-19 such as holding this event outdoors, limiting attendance, and providing masks. However, We cannot guarantee that its participants, volunteers, or others in attendance will not become infected with COVID-19.

By attending this event, you certify that you do not fall into any of the following categories:

1. Individuals who currently or within the past fourteen (14) days have experienced any symptoms associated with COVID-19, which include fever, cough, and shortness of breath among others.

2. Individuals who have traveled at any point in the past fourteen (14) days either internationally or to a community in the U.S. that has experienced or is experiencing sustained community spread of COVID-19; or

3. Individuals who believe that they may have been exposed to a confirmed or suspected case of COVID-19 or have been diagnosed with COVID-19 and are not yet cleared as non-contagious by state or local public health authorities or the health care team responsible for their treatment.

DUTY TO SELF-MONITOR:

Participants and volunteers agree to self-monitor for signs and symptoms of COVID-19 (symptoms typically include fever, cough, and shortness of breath) and contact SD Bad Intentions Femdom event (SDfemdompp@protonmail.com) if they experiences symptoms of COVID-19 within 14 days after participating or volunteering in events by SD Bad Intentions Femdom event

RELEASE AND WAIVER.

I HEREBY RELEASE, WAIVE AND FOREVER DISCHARGE ANY AND ALL LIABILITY, CLAIMS, AND DEMANDS OF WHATEVER KIND OR NATURE AGAINST SD BAD INTENTIONS FEMDOM EVENTS AND ITS HOSTS , INCLUDING VOLUNTEERS, EITHER IN LAW OR IN EQUITY, TO THE FULLEST EXTENT PERMISSIBLE BY LAW, INCLUDING BUT NOT LIMITED TO DAMAGES OR LOSSES CAUSED BY THE NEGLIGENCE, FAULT OR CONDUCT OF ANY KIND ON THE PART OF THE RELEASED PARTIES, INCLUDING BUT NOT LIMITED TO DEATH, BODILY INJURY, ILLNESS, ECONOMIC LOSS OR OUT OF POCKET EXPENSES, OR LOSS OR DAMAGE TO PROPERTY, WHICH I, MY HEIRS, ASSIGNEES, NEXT OF KIN AND/OR LEGALLY APPOINTED OR DESIGNATED REPRESENTATIVES, MAY HAVE OR WHICH MAY HEREINAFTER ACCRUE ON MY BEHALF, WHICH ARISE OR MAY HEREAFTER ARISE FROM MY PARTICIPATION WITH THE ACTIVITY.

ASSUMPTION OF THE RISK. I acknowledge and understand the following:

1. Participation includes possible exposure to and illness from infectious diseases including but not limited to COVID-19. While particular rules and personal discipline may reduce this risk, the risk of serious illness and death does exist;

2. I knowingly and freely assume all such risks related to illness and infectious diseases, such as COVID-19, even if arising from the negligence or fault of the Released Parties; and

3. I agree to indemnify and hold harmless SD Bad Intentions, its organizers &/or hosts, from any loss, liability, injury, damage or cost that they may occur or that they may incur due to my presence or my actions at the event, whether caused by my negligence or otherwise.

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